When parents don't parent. Have you noticed some of these self-important parents that care more about themselves than thier own children? One of the first signs is appearance. You've seen them; these mothers (sometimes fathers) who are decked out in designer clothing while they drag thier children all around the mall dressed like shit. They are either dirty or sloppy. I know what you're thinking; they are kids and they will only wind up messing up thier clothes anyway. That I do agree with but when I was growing up I had two sets of clothing: school clothes and play clothes; and I was poor! After school, I undressed and ran outside ready to tear another hole in my play clothes. When my mother took me somewhere, back into my good clothes. My mother felt that her child should always look thier best even if she couldn't herself. I am now the same way with my son. I will continue to wear the same fucked up Uptowns just as long as my son looks presentable. Remember, your children are a reflection of you and your lifestyle. If your kid is dressed like shit, curses and is cruel to animals we all know who to point the finger at.